hello

hey

hi, i am a bit desparate for an appropriate study partner

Ngl dude, I don't use this website study for studying uk

Engineering

at?

?

i meant like what college

Not a well known

ok

Damn, good luck bro

thanks

Maharashtra

ok

To understand what problems students face while studying

ok

Coz I ace my exams

wut?!

Even idk,

i have faced a lot of issues in the past

I'll try to give u ans

right now it has gotten a lot better

Wdym

but i used to be severely depressed lol

Damn

my home isnt the best place

Feel free to talk about it

yeah, no

my 5 years of life got wasted

Dang

i regret everything but still i know it was a tough time , and not easy to get over with

Sure

now all i want to do is get a top rank in jee adv. i want to put all the hardwaork for the 3 months and get the best rank in jee adv

Sed

i mean i am good now, good thing i realised it well before the exam , i can prepare in less time

Damn dude

u hope 🤣🤣

U and i r closer uk

well, not that it should matter, but idk what made you think that i am a guy

Idk man

yeah, whatever

And what u aspire to become

i am very much interested in space and AI

Aah cool

Well

wow

Yea

what makes you think that?

Coz I said so

so you are already trying to do that

Sure :)

U saw through 😋

yeah, ofc

What's ur insta @

dont have one

Dang, u focused

try to be

I study for like 2 hours a day or so, rarely, and i don't even want to get full grades

yeah, you prolly have the ability to focus a lot more than others

I was shocked to find out my friends studied this much and still get no grades

ok

That's why am on this app

ok

Sure

what stream did you choose in 11 and 12

Im in engineering rn, so ofc Science

was is completely your choice or did your paarents force you into it?

I didn't knew what to do, so my parents said taking science is best for u, i blindly accepted

i am gonna go personal , we both are anonymous to each other so it does not really matter

Had none

ok, so i see you had no pressure or very less pressure

Not true,

i am actually really good at music. i dont intend to be good . i love it to do it. i can learn new instruments fairly quickly

That's cool

on the other hand, whenever i used to sit down to study , all the dreadful things used to come into my mind

Mhm

for eg . what if i dont succeed , what if i disappoint everyone. these things always used to shift my focus from studies. i unkowingly developed a phobia from studying

Ok here's where u fuck up

everyone gets these thoughts , i am sure, but the volume of such thoughts for mr for huge

I have the same thing

i used to over over think

So, im a kinda scientific guy, I mean I am curious, and i basically research about almost everything

yeah, makes sense

Studying and overall lifestyle, is VERY much affected by our mindset and way of thinking

i did tons of introspection and learnt that positivity is the key

Yea it always boils down to basic ngl 😂

so i changed my mindset and now everything is a lot better

Thats great

actually, there is a person that causes all this

Who

i used to think that as long as this person is in my life, i can never do good

Ur dad or wot

and it is impossible to separate from that person(you get the indea who)

Why so

he is a hugeeeeeeeeeeeeee demotivater

"u don't know"

everyone in my house walks on eggshells

He got like 4-5 degrees, including llb(advocacy),

ohhh

My mum got 3 degrees also including LLB

oh wait

Everyone out high expectations of me for no reason

another reaason you are good is your genetics

I get stress / pressure too

hmm, ok

The poor always hates the rich

for me, its all not that good. i mean it is pretty good but not as yours

True

for me, its all not that good. i mean it is pretty good but not as yours

Finding excuses for everything is bad for u , since am a stranger online, I'll point this out, will help u alot

that is actually true

For example It's like, if ur depressed, then why r u trying to justify it, u should be ashamed, and work on it

i compare myself to others situations and then find excuses

U giving excuses gives power to ur situation, instead of u being in control, ur situation is

i dont think i should be ashamed of the past, i did not experience all that ive experienced now

Yea, ashamed is not the right word tbh, but u get the point

i got out of it, only because my dream exam was near and i couldnt waste anymore time

Even tho lets say depression is real and shit, I never believe in depression, u can do anything to me, and I'll never get depressed, now me believing this will give me reasons and excuse to prove the fact that I can never get depressed, and therefore actually never will be, it's a self fulfilling prophecy

One thing good about u is u agree on the fact that u have ur weakness too

thanks

What grade r u in tho

i think this generation is getting spoilt, we get too emo nowadays

True

when life wasnt happening the way i wamted it too, i felt that "how dare god do this to me" which is just being egoistic

The strangest secret by earl nightingale

i think we should learn to accept life as it is, accept ourselves as we are, and work for what we want

Watch this on YouTube

True,

whats it about?

Mindset i believe

ok

Lmk when u finish it

i will watch it tomorrow

Dude

i literally never do

Idc if ur syllabus is not complete, or something

i am gonna do it this one time

Alr alr

see, right now IIT is really important for me

During exam, atleast 5-6 hours sleep minimum

i have to get it anyhow

Yea, but sleep basically helps u rearrange and organise ur memories

i believe sleep is mostly an escape from reality

We dream because our mind is replaying memories, to arrange them properly

Have u ever tried lucid dreaming

i used to sleep a lot before because i just didnt want to accept the reality

Even idk dude, I'm learning myself

ok

All ik is that u need consistency and patience

right now everything is fpr JEE

Good luck

i fucked my 1st attempt of mains

How much?

93%ile

So u giving it again?

yeah ofc

I mean 93 is good

naah

Ok now i really want u to pass this

helps

Because in my course, since I have never given jee / neet or any competitive exams, me trying to teach studying about jee is not worth it, I would love to interview u then

Was never my goal 🤷🏽‍♂️

ok

+ no disrespect but I don't see any good reason to jump in the exam when there's so many competition for no reason

After u get 99%ile this time u will be :)

yeah see, thats true but its also true that exams decide a whole lotta things

Alr cindrella, was good to meet u

good to meet you too'

just finished the vid u recommended

Yea, glad to know u did

i ll do the 30 days

Sure, only upside to that

everyone ive met is stupid and hopeless

Everyone once were

ya

How's ur prep going

a lot better than before

Who studies for English bhai 🫡

yes, thats the point

Dang

U care too much,

well, not as much..remnants might be left

It's like

yes,

Good luck is all I can say

Don't u have any goals or something?

I do

Ok..

When do u sleep dude

I try to stay awake..but call asleep by 3..

Damn

The passage I got in English was exactly made for my father 😂

Wdym, Elaborate 😂

The passage was about reactive parents,...nd how criticism and negativity does no good..how wrong it is to criticize..and to be positive and appreciate the child's good qualities